Pleasure Pilgrims

An Online Community for Sensualists and Pleasure Seekers

The Rules

Everyone must adhere to all rules. PLEASURE PILGRIMS is a private social club for couples and singles to socialize, meet, dance, have some drinks, and take it to the next level.  If ANYONE is disrespectful, they will be removed from the club.

Couples and single ladies are admitted on all nights, and single gentlemen are admitted on special nights only. Everyone may purchase tickets to THREE WAY, Nashville Opera's  new opera featuring Pleasure Pilgrims.

  • The golden rule “No” means “NO.”  DON’T PUSH THE BOUNDARIES.
  • Approach couples and single ladies with respect in order to start a conversation.
  • No harassment of any kind.
  • Over-drinking is not acceptable; please drink moderately or you will be removed.
  • Couples ONLY play area: Gentlemen are not permitted to enter this area unescorted by a lady.
  • ALWAYS treat others with respect.
  • NEVER assume anything; always ask politely.

Single Gentlemen
Some of our clients expect to meet respectful single gentlemen. Some don’t have that preference. Don’t take it personally if you are rejected; it’s all about preference. Plain and simple: "No” means, “NO."

Excessive Drinking
Don’t be a fool and drink more than you can handle. Excessive drinking can impair your judgment as well as put you into a very embarrassing situation when sex is, “on the menu." Know your limits.

Dealing with Jealousy
Jealousy strikes both men and women when they perceive a third-party threat to a valued relationship. Although common, especially among “new” couples in the lifestyle, it can be avoided. Always arrive together with your partner, stay close to your partner, and take the time to touch base often, discussing your actions or intentions. Lastly, always leave together. If any jealousy occurs, please cease all activity immediately, move yourselves to a quiet place, and discuss any issues. If the problem cannot be solved, then we suggest leaving the party to work out your differences elsewhere.

Drugs of ANY sort will not be tolerated. This includes the carrying and using of drugs within the clubs premises. Anyone found with drugs on their person will be REMOVED from the club. The only exception is the "little blue pill," which should be used in moderation.

Dress Code
In general, our dress code is, “Dress to Impress” on the weekends and  “Casual but Neat” for our midweek day events.  The key is sexy for the ladies and classy for the gents. For our “themed” parties, the theme attire is optional, but it’s recommended in order to set the mood of the party. Sometimes robes and masks will be involved. The Pleasure Pilgrim policy on gender-neutral or gender nonconforming attire is 100% inclusive and still evolving.

Thank you for your anticipated cooperation.


Jillian and Bruce